Listen to the small things to prevent them becoming big things
Particularly children with their parents, if a persons small everyday issues are ignored, dismissed talked over, then this can leave a...
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Julie Raworth
- Jan 26, 2019
- 2 min
Listen to the small things to prevent them becoming big things
Particularly children with their parents, if a persons small everyday issues are ignored, dismissed talked over, then this can leave a...
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Julie Raworth
- Oct 21, 2018
- 1 min
Listening is a great opportunity to learn and grow yourself.
Sometimes giving advice when somebody shares is what is needed. But often by listening effectively offers the person the empowerment to...
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Julie Raworth
- Oct 6, 2018
- 1 min
Listen with all of you!
Only 80% of listening comes from 'words'. The rest comes from body language, empathy, connectivity. If you are looking at the tv or your...
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Julie Raworth
- Oct 1, 2018
- 1 min
How can you be listening to another if you are busy talking?
T he key to showing a person that you are listening is to not keep talking over them. They don't need to hear lots of advice at this...
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Julie Raworth
- Sep 24, 2018
- 1 min
Ask the person "How would you like me to help?"
It is very easy to get distracted by your own need and self pressure to fix a persons problem. This can block any capacity you have to...
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Julie Raworth
- Sep 21, 2018
- 1 min
Break the ice by doing something together
A previous post talked about ensuring you appear available, which means not disappearing into your phone while you wait. However,...
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Julie Raworth
- Sep 20, 2018
- 1 min
Don't rush a person to share
One of the fundamental tools in counselling is time and space. Space for the client to settle their feelings sufficiently to find words...
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