YOUNG PERSONS COUNSELLING
I work therapeutically with young people from ages 13yrs to 18 yrs.
I have had the honour to watch young people create change in their internal struggles, confidently, innocently and powerfully without the inhibitions that society starts to create in adults. Below is a list of issues I have had experience working with.
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Re-constituted families through divorce and separation
Deployment and establishing a new home
Confidence and self-esteem
From working in primary schools I have found children from yr6 onwards are at a significant developmental stage in their life when they start to see themselves as individual beings. They start to become aware of other around them , and start to think more about peers, relationships and social issues outside of the family system. They start to want to find their own solutions for their problems, seeking help outside of the family, and start to find their own voice and views of the world.
I therefore offer a space in which a young person who may be experiencing problems wants to start solving these problems independently.
Whilst young people are part of a larger system, I am not a family therapist and my focus lies completely on the young person's perception and experience of their world.
I stand by a strong confidentiality framework, that, regardless of age, nothing the child says is disclosed to the parents without permission. I do not write reports or offer case notes of sessions to parents. I will however support a young persons to communicate particular information to their family if it may be in their best interest to do so. If the intention or report of serious harm is disclosed I follow clear procedures about how this is handled.
I focus on the childs agenda, not the parents. Whilst an initial understanding is required from the parent as to what they see as being the problem, how the child understands the problem may be very different. What may also be a problem for the parent may not be for the child. This enables us to explore all of the childs world where we may discover the real reason for their problems or problems that had not previously been expressed.
I require a commitment of a minimum of 6 sessions to start with in order for me and your child to establish a trusting relationship, do some therapeutic work and end effectively. I will ask for some feedback about how you feel the child is progressing along with how the child is feeling about being in therapy so we can collaborate in a further plan. The child's choice about this is always paramount in this decision making.
Initiation of therapy has to come from the young person.
I don't have a toolbox of strategies in which to give the young person. The toolbox lies within them and I have a toolbox of my own which I use to help the young person to help them find what works best for them.
These stipulations can be difficult for parents to work with but they are essential in creating a safe and secure environment for the child to explore their private worlds effectively. It is therefore important, before considering sending your child to counselling, if you are comfortable with this.
It is also important to consider beforehand if you think the young persons problems are part of a wider systemic problem. If so then it may be better to consider a family therapist who can advise accordingly. There may also be underlying health or learning issues which should be discussed with your GP and the child's school.
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